being Human
Being Human workshop
facilitated bySolihin and Alicia Thom

As humans, we are equipped to lead both an inner and outer life. When these two are harmonious, they become one, so that our outer actions, thoughts and feelings are guided by our inner Self. This is the essence of being human.

In our busy and oft distracted lives we may wonder why our lives do not measure up to our wishes or expectations and why we often repeat similar behaviours, unable to make real and lasting changes, or that we seem to have fallen into a rut or mode of ill health that we have difficulty extricating ourselves from.
You will be introduced into this powerful, experiential workshop and discover elements of yourself which will explain why we say something and yet do something else, why we always seem to repeat similar behaviours or destructive habits.

The work is based on an understanding that we are composed of various elements that echo and mirror elements from the different realms, our collective evolutionary history and of course inherited and familial patterns. The model explained and your experience of it, is from sources that include Neoplatonic, Kaballistic and Ibn Al Arabi's exegesis that was adopted into Sufi theology, coupled with a modern interpretation through the physics of a quanta based understanding, gives us a framework to understand who, what and why in reference to our own selves and how we function.

Just as our external world is composed of material, vegetative and animal elements, we too as humans contain these same elements within us. These are contained within our own material self or body, and as such, contain energy which, when influencing us, act as a force. These elements are carried by particular and specific carriers which provide for all that we are, and which carry within them the source of what we might call our innate, intuitive, instinctual and internal knowing. When something — a genetic predisposition, a feeling, a habit, or a belief — takes power or influences us, whether positively or negatively, it exerts a force, and these may support us or act to topple, disorganize, disrupt and generally make us slave or under the influence of these same elements.
We invite you to join us on a journey that can lead to a wider and deeper understanding of the forces that shape your life. You will begin to recognize your own unique ontology – the sequence of events that has brought you to your present state. Drawing from experiences, both from within the workshop and our daily lives, we will to see the action of the various forces and how they affect our behavior, instincts, beliefs and identity. The Being Human workshop will enable you to:

• Recognize the forces that impact your life
• Adopt a new language and understanding of these elements to help you in life, relationships and health
• Use this understanding for yourself, family and friends as well as in your working life
• Make peace and reconcile with your and others past history
• Discover the five essential qualities that facilitate change
• Enhance and enrich your relationships – with the Divine, with partners, with one's children and with others.
• Find meaning, value and joy in everyday life, and the sense of your pupose
• Begin to live a parallel inner and outer life


Prerequisite for both workshops is reading Being Human: Exploring the forces that shape us and awaken an inner life, by Solihin and Alicia Thom and Alexandra ter Horst.