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March, 2004

Welcome to the March issue of the Being Human e-zine. Here in Oregon the sky is blue, the sun is warm, the tulips, daffodils, crocuses and snowdrops are blooming, the dog is shedding, the leaves and blossoms on the trees are budding, and the feeling of spring and new life is in the air. With best wishes, Alicia and Solihin


In this issue...

The PassionThe IconBeing Human Book Update for MarchOudh Has Arrived!!New Additions to the Calendar of Events for 2004



The Passion

Recently, we went to see Mel Gibson's movie "The Passion of the Christ." Some of you may have already seen it, others have yet to see it , and some of you may have no intention of ever seeing it. No matter which group you fall into, you have probably some response to the film, as it has certainly aroused passion, which has been well documented in the media. Solihin and I saw "The Passion" without many expectations, on the spur of the moment when we unexpectedly had a free evening in Seattle. We knew there was controversy about the film and wanted to see it for ourselves. We had heard and read some of the debate, but had less exposure than most, as we do not have television.
Last week I went to hear a panel of religious scholars of different faiths discuss the cultural phenomenon of this film and the effect that it is having in this country. It was very interesting to hear each of the different viewpoints.
One man felt that Gibson interpreted the gospels too literally, as if they were a historical account, with the primary responsibility for Jesus' death assigned to Jews, and that this literalization removed the layers of meaning and the mysticism that exists in the story of the passion. He felt the film conveyed the widely-held view that God willed Jesus' death to pay for the sins of the world, which he sees as a slur against God, to suggest that God required this. Other people had criticism for the lack of a context, history or background for the story. One Jewish man related his experience of watching the film while sitting behind a church group, and his realization that he and they were seeing two "different" films, they through Christian
and he through Jewish lenses. In some cases, the film has deeply moved and galvanized evangelical Christians to create a religious revival. One person mentioned how the experience of being "born again" is so powerful that many who have had the experience are constantly seeking to recapture its intensity.
I think what is most interesting about this film is what a great example it is of how we see from our own position, history and culture and how that shapes the experience that we have when we see it. Someone suggested that if non-Jews would spend ten minutes watching the film as if they were Jews, they would better understand how this has affected them; another person felt that "how you view Jesus (in the film) is shaped by what you think of him before you see the film."
For me, the film was the telling of a story - powerful, moving and difficult. As for the Jews being "responsible," I think we have to widen our view and realize that every single culture that exists has been responsible for the death and suffering of others, none of us are blameless. Taking this out of an historical context makes it very black and white, far too simplistic.
Just as each of us acts individually from whatever our state happens to be at the time, so too, do we act culturally, religiously or nationally (look at what is happening now in Iraq, Israel etc.) from our state. If we are only able to see what we know at that moment, and are unable to find a way to look beyond our own experience, it is unlikely that we will see the potential consequences of our actions, or realize that our fear of the unknown or that which is different, or challenges or threatens our own wellbeing becomes the enemy, the "other" or "them."
I see this film as an opportunity to examine our viewpoint and where it originates from, to own it, and realize that may not be the only way to see this, or anything else, to acknowledge that others may see it differently, and to be willing to consider widening our own view to understand why. When we allow our differences to polarize us, it causes chasms that divide rather than bridges that unite humanity. - Alicia

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes. - Marcel Proust



A Matter of Caring

This month Solihin and I attended a Conference on Caring, held in the beautiful Columbia River Gorge here in Portland. About sixty people from all walks of life gathered to explore the idea of caring: what is it, how do we do it, what does it mean?
Solihin and I presented our work in the context of personal sustainability, examining the question of "How do we care for and sustain ourselves at each level of the life forces?" To read a synopsis of our presentation, please click here.
For me, an important realization was that how we receive care from others is just as significant as how we give it. I recognize that I sometimes have difficulty accepting or receiving from others. Several months ago I was in hospital with a back injury, and, unable to do anything for myself, had to really let go and allow others care for me. I received so much grace through the loving kindness of dear friends that I felt truly blessed. For me, caring is about giving and receiving, and doing both from the right place, through guidance and love.
- Alicia

Being Human Book Update

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This month we received three wonderful reviews - a write-up in ForeWord Magazine, "reviews of good books published independently" and two on-line reviews whose links appear below:

Bookideas.com
thebooxreview.com review and author interviews

This month, Alicia attended the Public Library Association National Convention in Seattle, garnering interest for the book among librarians. Don't forget to ask for the book at your local library - patron requests are often considered when librarians are placing book orders!

Solihin and Alicia also appeared on two Seattle-based radio shows, Contact Radio and Global Voices Radio. In addition, Solihin was interviewed on WVIA radio, a local NPR affiliate in Scranton, PA. They will conduct a mini-workshop based on the book for Portland-based Project Quest in early April, and will appear at Portland's Twenty Third Ave. Books on Thursday, April 22.
Being Human is now available on Amazon.com, and in select bookstores in the Pacific Northwest. You can still order the book directly from us at www.beinghumanbook.com, or if you are not an on-line shopper, your local bookstore can easily order a copy for you!

In the next few months, Solihin and Alicia will conduct Being Human 1-day introductory workshops in New York, Oregon, and Washington. Check out the complete schedule:
Upcoming Being Human talks and workshops


I am content to follow to its sourceEvery event in action or in thought;Measure the lot; forgive myself the lot!When such as I cast out remorseSo great a sweetness flows into the breastWe must laugh and we must sing,We are blest by everything,Everything we look upon is blest.- William Butler Yeats


Oudh Is Here!

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The oudh has finally arrived! Our extremely potent and high quality oudh is now available in a 2.5ml bottle at a cost of $85 (double the amount we used to sell at the same price, so it's a great deal!). It is pure, and not diluted with any other oil. It's the perfect compliment to our full set of Sacred Oils. You can order by calling Alexandra at 800 304-4464 or you may email us.